I couldn't do myself any justice if I didn't post my first Near and Dear, I just thought it was a bit expected to do so, but I will have to join the blogwagon and say that the things that are the most near and dear to me are my kids. It takes a lot to bring a child into this world and even more to raise them. However the rewards for that work are simple. The witnessing of their growth.

Tyler and Mina are my projects to try and do the parenting thing right. They are a true joy to be with and around and although there have been sleepless nights, panick attacks with bumps and bruises and a general daily routine to follow, it has been a joy to date.

Looking back these are the things I think I have missed out on in my younger days. I often wonder if I would have appreciated it as much as I do now? Would I have been as patient and understanding, let alone nurturing as I am today?

I suppose these are all questions that will have to go unanswered for now. All I can say is that I am making every effort to do the right thing and be that which I am supposed to be; Father, Friend, Mentor, Guidance counselor and anything else that they need. The key word in all of this is simply to be responsible and appreciate the time you have with them. They will not be little forever and eventually grow up to become their own people who. All we can do is lay the foundation, attempt to guide them in the right direction then let them go.